Let's make one thing clear, a loving relationship between an adult man and woman, often occurs when sometimes it would be better if it didn't happen- there is nothing morally wrong with it;

But it is deemed proffesional misconduct if between a doctor and one of his patients, a preacher and one of his flock, a teacher and one of his students... etc! Morally wrong in those cases, I'd have to say so.

Make no mistake, expats teaching in China who form loving relationships with students can expect trouble from their employers. Mantaining such a relationship without others knowing is extremely tough to do. Sonner or later it will become common knowledge. I think it's unwise for FTs to sleep with students. Wny don't they choose to sleep with Chinese women who are not students? Nothing wrong with doing that from a moral or a proffesional point of view!