Why do you think I look for women who already have houses/apartments/cars, etc? It's not because I need them I DON'T, I have houses in my own country and cash reserves on top of that. You can say whatever you like, most Chinese women will bring up the topic of houses and cars and visas at some point. I agree with some posters here though, it's best to weed out those bad eggs early in the peace, then quickly move on.

You are limiting your options too much. Why don't you just pretend that you haven't a pot to piss in, so as you can see her true colours. There's many many poor, hand to mouth FT's in China who end up with ravishing girls who have no real desire to go abroad to live.