I have no problem finding a job because I am a damn good teacher

A word to the wise, dear girl, humility is an attractive trait in a female. Being a braggart is not one of them however. Western women like YOU are the reason I and other western men find asian females more attractive. Then western women bleat and complain because we are not attracted to them. Coming home from China to the UK, is like leaving the flamingo section of the zoo and visiting the elephant enclosure, nothing attractive about the women in blighty. Compared to Sichuan girls, and Chongqing girls, UK women just cannot compare...but that is me, others may differ. Yes, there are plenty of selfish and vain asian women, but there are also plenty more who are down to earth, humble and nice.

I think you need to be reminded of this adage by John Cassis:

“It's nice to be important, but it's more important to be nice.”