I have never said people shouldn't drink or date. Nor am I the moral police. I love a drink as much as the next person, especially so at parties!

I don't drink/party the night before I am teaching though, as it is irresponsible and unfair to my students. I don't approve of anyone who turns up to work drunk/hungover... However this is not anywhere near the same as saying I disapprove of drinking, dating or having fun!

The trouble you have with distinguishing simple differences is astounding!