you are not even close to the topic you probably are a Helen worker wanting attention

I didn't mean to offend. I should say that if you(not a you personally type you) are grossly overweight it doesn't make you a bad person; however, it may well indicate to Chinese ladies that you have very little self-control. Anyway, what self-respecting Chinese girl wants her boyfriend to enter a room belly first!? There's too many FT's who think that Chinese girls should accept them even though Western women don't and they look like they were transported from the docks by means of a fork-lift-truck. A man should not exceed 2000 calories each day and a woman needs just 1500.

If this Helen group have a maximum weight policy they can't be bad- if that's what you're saying?