I went to educate, you went to whore about... If you lie down with dogs, you get fleas...

You would love to prove that, wouldn't you?

I actually only had a couple of girlfriends, 1 or 2 I miss dearly. I did not go about shagging whores, contrary to what you may believe.

Or, to put it in a way your simple mind can process

Simple mind?! A straight a student in foreign languages at my high school, the vocabulary of someone much older than my age are primary school, yes, I was tested, and the headmaster was amazed at the results, so language and words is my bent, so to speak, but conversely I was crap at maths and physics, so call it a left brain, right brain thing, if you will. Never bothered with sixth form, a waste of time, only for GW wankers imho.

if you go looking for the negative aspects of a place, you find them.

If you think China is all roses, you are very mistaken. I have had some chinese friends complain to me of the place also.

Italy is a beautiful country with lovely people

Absolutely right. It is on my bucket list.The food, the wine, the scenery of the tuscan region, I do want to go. But it is expensive, and I heard Rome is very crowded and full of scammers.Venice interests me, the rest, not so much.

but had I gone to brothels and places of ill repute I would have met some very shifty and shady characters and I would have had a very different experience.

True, but you can also find those in bars anywhere in the world. Are you telling me that you never set foot in a bar in China? I know you did by your own admission!!!! I never even went to bars in Taizhou, but I suspect you lived in Jiaojiang Qu, that place is full of foreign weasels let me tell ya!!!!

You went seeking a certain lifestyle, you found it. That's not indicative of all of China.

And whats wrong with that? You also went seeking your feminist lifestyle, you make your choices, I'll make mine.Consequences be damned!!!