The problem in China is most girls, especially most beautiful girls under 30 have what I and other laowai guys have deemed "entitlement mentality" or your my boyfriend so you should buy me a LV bag, buy me gifts, always pay for dinner and drinks and so on.
Considering there are some chinese guys who earn less than FT's I don't know how they can do it. The "da nan, xiao nv" problem is only going to get worse factoring this into the equation.
I have also run into this problem Silverboy, Chinese women who think that getting married should mean and end to all work, and a life of leisure and luxury. I was not aware that marriage meant no more work ever and being taken care of. If I get married is someone going to take care of me? if so where do I sign up? LOL.