, you might well be happily in the same Chinese job now-married to FAOess- two kids- a healthy sex life..who knows how your life could have changed.

that is pure guess work, he might still have left china, how can anyone know that?

I think that that scallywag, Collyhurst retired Sewer Worker, has run off taking your sense of humour in his swagger-bag, San Mig.

As for your other post-you unquestionably know that what I said about the scent was true, otherwise you would have really gorn to town on me-No, I wouldn't have gotten away with a small portion of sarcasm about me claiming to know every thing. Je connais les homme- am I right or am I right...snigger snigger- all good fun.

If I recommend to not to USE a recruiter, would it then be logical to use one myself. I think not.

Exactly, I never thought for one moment you did use a recruiter; I accept completely that you approached the schools yourself. What I was saying was that it didn't do you a blind bit of good to look for and find those two jobs yourself because it ended in complete and costly failure. Now if you had of found a specialist, a recruiter, to advise and guide you at that stage, you might well be happily in the same Chinese job now-married to FAOess- two kids- a healthy sex life..who knows how your life could have changed.