How do you know? Do you have telepathic capabilities? What about if "he" (?) looked like Psy, or even worse, like Frankenstein? How do you what Chinese women really may attract to men, whether Chinese or not, doesn't matter?

Maybe, you should consider to open up a new recruiter business - that of recruiting Chinese ladies for lonesome Western FTs in China? ...LOL

Maybe we are in cahoots Hahaha- not really, guaranteed different IP.....be a terrible coincidence if he's really that bloke 'next door but one' with same IP though wouldn't it? hahaha. No you are quite right of course, Turnoi- you got me on that one. However, you have to admit he sounds a pretty wise chap, and a Biblical man to boot?

As for lonesome FT's. Well, my advice is this, if you are lonely, try and find some way of dealing with your loneliness- at least to try and take the edge off of it before you start looking for a woman, because a desperate for a woman man, will end up making all the wrong decisions. If he doesn't become a silly old fool he may become bitter and twisted which is the normal progression after becoming a silly old fool. So before you start looking for that woman try and get your head in order first- maybe find some hobbies-join the ramblers-take up photography- study Mandarin. A woman should be the icing on the cake and ones goal should be, to be fairly happy without a woman- then you are ready for one. Now you have had the benefit of my wisdom , Turnoi...perhaps maybe..stranger things happen at sea...you could well prepare yourself for a Mrs Turnoi and half a dozen little Turnois- hao bu hao.