Real love, it's a fair point actually. A girfriend of mine was talking to me recently about real love as though it was some sort of myth. I felt really bad for her. I don't want to generalise too much but, are the Chinese really not 'loving' in the sense that westerners know? I just can't believe that's true. We're all human so perefctly capable of loving someone regardless of where we're from.

The Chinese do seem very materialistic though, not to clever with money some of these oil-men here Shandong.

All in all i'm enjoying China.

Peace