Hello Turnoi/S[edited], I would like to respond to your judgement of me.

You are making that up. Nothing "brutal", Dragonized (Mr. [edited][edited]) is an
American, and he has had his problems in China and with other people on here. I found
him to be quite an obsessive person whom I had tried to help in his soup kitchen stuiff
that you had started with him and that he got so furious about. In 2012, when I was for
a visit in the US for some time he phoned several times my residence number in Louisiana
to talk about low-lives in ESL, the Chinese etc. He also kept mailing me and even called
me several times on Skype. This has been going on for several years, and I feel I
invested too much time on this guy; he is the kind of person that expects to be
"served" with all the kind of small personal problems he has, thereby relying
on the goodness of other people. When it doesn't work out as he expects, he will blame
you, simply forgetting that nobody owes him anything, certainly not a stranger that I
am.

I have never been to a soup kitchen. Either you are deliberately lying (which I think you are) or you have mistaken me for another person. I have stated that I do not even know where to look for a soup kitchen on this forum although I am not sure if this was posted or not on the forum by the board mods. I certainly never told you over the phone or over skype that I went to a soup kitchen. I hope once and for all that this clears up any misunderstandings on the part of what others may think of me as I have NEVER used charity from society. I gave you my phone number because you also shared personal information with me in the past regarding where you had lived in Germany. I saw you as a friend and even as a mentor. But I was not under the impression that you saw me as a needy person. I spoke to you on Skype because I thought we had built up enough rapport to be friends. I do not expect to be "served", that is a rather silly thing to say. I enjoy having conversations with people I call my friends. You are the one who seems to have trouble socializing and understanding what it means to be friends with others. But it does show how loveless and unfriendly you yourself really are. I certainly am not stranger than you in that respect. But you seem to be quite sociopathic and you have no problems changing the Narrative of a person on a dime. That is something that people with a conscience have trouble doing, and it makes you seem less than adequate in terms of performance in the real world.

A person like that is someone who will take your entire hand when you reach him a finger. As
an adult, he should better stand up for himself and sort out things himself instead of
expecting other people to do it for him. SB once wrote in a post he would kick the a..se
of a certain Chinese businessman, and Dragonized replied: "I would pay to see that
happen" (I would not pay anyone but just do it myselt if I felt like doing it).

I certainly do not see why you would see me as "taking your entire hand" if in the next sentence you accuse me of being too soft and need to stand up for myself better. People who need to stand up for themselves better do not take a lot from others. We all have different personalities, does that mean I deserve contempt for it? You have also made similar responses to Silverboy with regards to kicking the arses of people. What have you done in real life yourself that proves you to have more spine than me? NOTHING. You merely post on here like I do and now you want to put yourself on some pedestal of being a better "internet warrior". You are laughable if you believe that this gives you authority over anything.

His hatred of the Chinese is strange, if you consider his origin. It's probably rooted in
some problems he has with his family. I don't like the system in China and the officials
who run it for obvious reasons mysel, but I like normal Chinese people beause they are
friendly, not corrupt, helpful and simply ordinary people, honest, and sometimes even
good friends. So, I won't allow neither him nor anyone else to come on here and call
simple Chinese "backwards" or similar. They are the product of their
environment, and people like Dragonized who have grown up in the West simply ignore that
fact. The difference between ordinary Chinese people and an ordinary Western citizen is
that they had been deprived of the opportunity to live in a real free country and to
develop according personality traits that peopler in Western countries generally have.
People in Eastern Europe had similar problems after the Iron Curtain fell. Thus, if you
criticise them as "backwards" or similar, you are looking down ion them, you
show a kind of racist attitude, and that's not your right. Period.

I certainly grew up in the West. I also certainly grew up in a family with firm Communist values with Confucianism mixed in as well. That said, you are the strange one. Even in my aliases I will use an Asian name such as the "Lane Wu" I use for my email. I do not see my critical attitude as Racist, nor abusive. The reason for this is because my Asian roots are the key to the real side of how many groups of people from Asia will treat me. Now please do not take the following response as charity merely to an ignorant person like you, because I am well aware that the world reads these posts. Many Asians I have met are close minded people who will put up a "front" when socializing with non-Asians. However, the attitude they employ to me will be completely different. Whereas they may appear jolly, cheerful, and righteous to you they will be nihilistic, depressed, and dump on me all their own troubles (which is ironic because that is what you have accused me of doing). Calling people a simple "product of their environment" is an outright Dogma as not everyone who is raised in an environment will end up agreeing with the values of that environment. This opinion shows that I still am capable of believing that folks can turn out differently, even if they are in the minority. But you obviously do not believe in that, and you are poorer in spirit because of it. Your use of the word "Hate" with regards to my relationship with the Chinese Identity shows how little you really know about people of different backgrounds. Real Relationships are grey, and you do not know what emotional investments into them are. Life is complicated, and despite you yourself being twice my age you still are stuck in a teenage mentality of categorizing entire groups of people based on what countries they are from as being the root causes of "problems" that you cannot define. I will use your own words now by saying that you show a kind of racist attitude, and that's not your right. Period.

Freedom to do what you want with your life is something that isn't taken in the same way between the two of us. For you, it is using the unchanging mindsets of people as an "Abuse Charity" provided by them of sorts to rant infinitely about how it takes hundreds of years for things to change and how justice is relative. You use this Forum as a place to dominate and abuse others. Anyone who disagrees with you will receive your wrath. The WORST thing you do on this forum is pretending you care about anything. You and your cronies' treatment of me, a Chinese American as well as your lack of friendliness towards those who have supported your points in the past show that you are a simple con-artist and nothing that you nor your friends such as woodbine willie/yu2fa3 should be taken at face value. However, you guys do provide a great use for the world audience since you all show how Real Racists will exploit the good will of other tribes and make do with whatever meager attention they should get on an anonymous forum. I made the mistake that you were a sincere person who cared in an uncaring world. I can see now you are just a old man living a mediocre life in his waning days with nothing to offer the world but hate and idiocy. Have a nice life, or what's left of it. Also, thank you for being a great role model, turned upside down that is.