Instead of actually providing useful, factual information about how you are living more successfully you redirect the attention towards how people who criticize china are always on the losing end of life. What with others not giving them the time of day, how they can't get jobs in the west, how they are the ones to blame for all the bad experiences, etc. You actually don't know anything about these people, just guessing like how I guess about what your life is like. You really can only draw these assumptions from what you yourself have experienced. You don't give out anything which would indicate that you really know how to live a better, more fruitful life in that country, nor do you give any real solutions to these personal problems that you like to exaggerate in others who post on here. At the end of the day you don't lead by example, and instead of changing minds you actually serve as an example of why others should heed the warnings about working in some places or some countries because they just might end up having to deal with a person such as you which is something I would not want to do anymore in real life.