My present contract says that FT's are forbidden from being romantic with their students or with their fellow Chinese teachers!

Wow, Turino, it reeks - that's a ridiculous and challengeable clause of a contract. It smacks of racial discrimination and compromises your human rights. Have some Chinese school directors the naive aim of attempting to keep the Chinese race pure? It seems that they regard foreigners as inferior bloodstock! I believe this Hitlerian outlook is the result of an over-emphasis on Chinese nationalism by the powers-that-be on the mainland. Having said that, it doesn't say much for any foreigners, former FT's or the present ones, hired by that school; they have let this clause continue to appear in contracts by not complaining about it! That's so disappointing from a western perspective! Personally, I'd run a mile in the first place, and avoid signing up there. What other unjust demands would be forced on you by that director? I dread to think what they could be!