No offense Adrian but you sound like a man with some entitlement issues. Personally I believe thinking so highly of yourself, as you clearly do, is not a good idea, as it can lead to such entitlement issues, and an unrealistic expectation as to your own worth, importance, etc, etc. That you try to impress us with your acumen by occasionally throwing in a Chinese word here and there certainly points to this character flaw, and it is a flaw. I would guess that ever since you decided to be unbending in your conditions for finding work, like demanding upfront airfare before even starting the job, that you don't work nearly as much as you might have some here believe, and indeed you've not commented at all on that matter.

This is an English forum, you're not impressing anyone by occasionally lapsing into Chinese, and calling me friend in that language is not going to engender trust or comradeship.