Oh my God, what are you on about? Don't keep resorting to "the bleeding obvious" Do you think I don't know that it isn't Chinese law to supply a computer? (The flowers that bloom in the spring tra la has nothing to do with the case) Why should there be such legislation? There is also no law to say you can't demand one[computer]- No confrontation involved, the boss has the right to refuse and I equally have the right to say that I am no longer interested in the position.

Another thing i always insist on apart from microwave etceteras is a new set of pots and pans, a new rice cooker, water dispenser and all new cooking utensils-these all cost money and I don't like tat. i get all these things added to the contract beforehand.

This new university I've made it known before I arrive that if I'm not wined and dined by the leaders upon my arrival i will not be well-pleased. It's all to do with getting off on the right foot.

Right, i really cannot answer any further stuff for a couple of months-I have to paint my soffits and fascias before I go.

You know what Tom,fella,you win! What I am not is tetchy, but tired, I'm still job hunting, dealing with family problems, and I'm sorry I just don't have time for you and this site anymore. If you want to email me,you are more than welcome, and we can from time to time discuss issues, when I am able to check and respond to emails.

However you wrote:

Another thing i always insist on apart from microwave etceteras is a new set of pots and pans, a new rice cooker, water dispenser and all new cooking utensils-these all cost money and I don't like tat. i get all these things added to the contract beforehand.

The microwave is always included normally. One place I worked at actually had a western style washing machine (front loader), not many gigs in China provide that, but instead have the usual top loading noisy machine. Pots and pans are of nominal cost, and should of course be included, rice cooker again is normal as is water dispenser and stuff. As for chopsticks, cutlery, I am quite hygiene obsessed and so used my own rewashable steel chopsticks and army knife and fork set, but horses for courses. Those things you mention don't actually cost so much, no more than 10 pounds in total I would say. Pretty much standard in any EFL contract.

Anyway, I'm done, good luck with your new uni gig. I'll still be here applying for jobs, twiddling my thumbs, different paths and all that my man...

@Silverboy, @Turnoi, I consider all your help a great service, you have helped me avoid making terrible mistakes, and so you are welcome to email me at the addy included at the top. Turnoi knows it anyway:)

The lawyer, closes tort law book, closes desk drawer, closes firefox, end game...