silverboy, you stated you want a wife and to live in China right?

I'm not against you man, and I have called out people on bs in china before, both chinese and foreigners, but at times I decided I needed to rethink where I was. I have heard of people kicked to the outer regions of HK and Macau, and left to the mercy of the relevant SAR authorities there as to whether or not they can stay in those China-lite places.

Problem is guanxi and connections are everything in the PRC,all it takes is to piss off one person higher up who feels wronged and has connections and your life can become very hard...no rule of law or right to recourse unlike the Commonwealth countries, not last time I looked.

And the large audience thing? Ever seen a rabid chinese crowd against a single laowai? I have and it ain't pretty, and can flare up over a very trivial matter, it's always better to tread wisely and watch your back in a country where people are locked up...and worse...