Of course you are right with the adult relationships. When I brought up the issue of ethics I was talking about 60 year olds coming to china to engage in copulation with 18/19 year olds. There was no intention whatsoever with pointing any of this at you on a personal basis. You clearly brought out your opinions regarding sexual repression towards chinese women. That in and of itself is a social-economic habit that is engrained into the culture. You are also right in that Kevin still wants to bunch you and other people whom you probably don't even know together as being "racist" or "bigoted". I'm sure you have come across behavior amongst the local chinese men and women that gave you your opinions on some things, I wasn't attacking those opinions either.