Of course, without ever having met this guy, you are already in the know of what kind of a person he really is. Of course this is because you are a good wife, a decent person, and you just know exactly what he is about. I haven't seen you give any advice to any man on how to be a good husband or a good person. Randomly posting a thread to attack others goes to show just how ungraceful and possibly narcissistic you really are.