How do you know he is not a good husband? Do you know him, or do you have any telepathic powers to "know"?
He is not even married.

A Chinese woman and a westerner get it together extremely well when they do special things betwixt the bedshheets. That's a physical thing, size matters for both parties! A tight fit makes ALL THE DIFFERENCE. Western women, as well as Chinese men, know this too, and that makes them jealous. Hence the scathing replies to Silverboy's pearls of wisdom.
We should ignore the nonsense posted by the two jealous western women.