Some posters would like to make this board a hostile place for those who call it like it is. Then, when you become annoyed and lash back they have their aha moment of believing in their self absorbed moral superiority as being validated. The poster whom you've been fighting with may have felt that his own fancies were threatened by most likely offhand comments made on this board a while ago and conjures the notion that he has those who disagree with him figured out. Trying to talk down others by using crappy middle kingdom employment as the cream of the crop for career choices is certainly a premise built on a cupcake foundation, so is lying about the personal lives of mystery men you have yet to meet. One cannot help but think if people such as these cannot find solid interacting coming from mutual trust on a harmless online arena then what resolutions on frolicking along with others in real time can they muster?