No, no, no, women like a bit of a paunch, especially if it has some western male hair on it.

If you're happy being abdominally obese and it works for you, then stay that way. I am merely advising other FT's with surplus fat who can't find love in China(save in pink rooms) that they'd be more successful looking like David Beckham as opposed to Mr Pickwick. Or in your case Mr Pickwick with a knuckle-duster hahaha. all good fun.