Ok, I will tell you a personal story and not one pulled out a trash bin. I met my first Chinese girlfriend at a training session I was doing. She was an English teacher at another middle school. On our second date she started asking me if I knew how she could leave China and work in another country. From that moment on she did her best to seduce me until she broke up with me a few months later. After that she started dating a rich, older guy in town. It seems sometimes you can't have it all.