Good for you that you have a great partner. I spent three years in between patners before I met a good hard working woman. But I followed my own advice in finding her. I have met too many foreigners who are reeled in by the first woman who pays any attention to them, and after the break there's hell to pay- pardon the expression. We are lucky, and for foreign men and woman in China who follow some diligence they can be lucky as well.