If you haven't got it by now, Beelze's mission on here can be described as follows:

In telling others how to live and how to go by recruiters and that they should find a wife

You are not being fair, Turnoi- you jealously guard your right to tell others not to use recruiters under any circumstances, and that is your right to do so. I myself tell others to go ahead and use recruiters(some types, not all) as a means of introduction to a school, where you will then be in a position to negotiate with the school yourself- equally, I should have every right to do so. And please note I have never said that you should trust a recruiter.

If you inform every-body who reads this forum about how shallow Chinese girls are and how you have spent donkeys years trying to find an Asian wife,without succeeding-then you are opening yourself up to criticism and advice- and all of that is fair enough.

If you tell the forum about your pension problems, you should not expect the luxury of making a statement, not to be mulled over and argued about. Am I right or am I right?