Barriers To Communication unfortunately do exist. Some hinder or completely eliminate meaningful communication between two people. What can we do to alleviate this problem? Let's take a look at an example from both sides of the table.

Say for instance that you are the speaker and you are trying to convey a feeling or a need to another person. How would you feel if that person interrupted you before you could even finish your thought? You'd probably be feeling like the person was not interested in what you had to say. You would probably be a bit annoyed too. Really makes you feel like you want to express yourself huh? Have you ever been guilty of this yourself?

Communication is a two-way street. To communicate effectively you have to express yourself clearly and not assume that the other person understands what you mean. Ask the person to tell you what they heard. If this was not what you were trying to say, explain it to them differently. Go into more detail about what you really meant to say. Don't let your emotions get in the way. Anger, accusing or blaming will not get your point across.

Every time we speak we are trying to accomplish something. Think before you speak. Make sure that what you are really trying to get across to the person is clearly understood.

Listening is another important tool in breaking down communication barriers. If we want good, effective and lasting communication with another person we have to open-minded enough to listen to what others have to say. Do not judge or ignore what you have heard. You may not agree with the person's point of view and that is fine. However, if it was important enough to the other person to express themselves the least you can do is listen them. Put yourself in their shoes and think about how you want to be treated when you have something to say.

Break down the walls to the barriers of communicating by being a better listener and speak in a manner that can easily be understood.

It is really up to you if you want to improve your communication skills. Just remember, "If you continue doing what you've always done, you will get what you have always got".

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