"Manners are the happy way of doing things." -- Ralph Waldo Emerson

Good manners are ways we express caring, consideration, and respect of others. When we use our good manners, we make our community more enjoyable for everyone. When we teach our children good manners, we empower them to have confidence in their ability to handle any situation in life.

Language:
The basic language of manners is "please," "thank you," "you are welcome," and "well done." When we use these words, we put others at ease. We let them know that we appreciate them and that we care enough about them to give them our full consideration. When we model the usage of these words for our children, we do them a great service.

Behavior:
Our children learn about behavior largely from observation, but many times they enter new situations for which they could use some coaching. It is very beneficial to remember the newness and to coach them through whatever may be about to come up. Think about your own child's behavior and where your child could benefit from some of your insight. Talking children through situations before they arise, empowers them with the tools they need to confidently and gently conquer new situations.

Car Talk:

Ask your child, "What do you think 'good manners' means?" "Give me some examples." And, then talk about them. You may be surprised what comes up!!
Ask your child what the world would be like if everyone used good manners all the time.
Ask your child what the world would be like if no one ever used good manners.

Be patient and be as consistent as possible. The rewards in good behavior are well worth the effort.

Katherine C. H. E. is a Flower Energy Consultant and Flower Meditation Coach. She helps empower her clients to take charge of their own well-being to empower themselves - with flowers - to live the BEST LIFE POSSIBLE.

She also created a "backpack" manners program for her son's elementary school in conjunction with the PTA.

Check out her website http://www.KatherineCHE.com for meditation audio (including some free downloads and meditations designed specifically to help to uplift in different ways). For more information, go to her website: http://www.KatherineCHE.com

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