Oh, what's your job Mr Hero? Still stuck in China teaching ESL are we?

FYI, modelling is a real job. Construction is definitely a real job! You are another uni snob perhaps?

The USA poster you mention does not live on food stamps. If he really did live in his mothers basement and is not paying rent I say good for him, he is smart. I've had two of my my properties, non-mortgaged ( that I bought with my own money ) rented out before and I've lived downstairs rent free at my family house with my mother. That's how you make money. Sure, I would take my Mum's car out sometimes and put fuel in it and pay half the grocery bill when I lived with her.

It's not really a problem if you have a car and internet access. Yes, most mainland Chinese women will not help you if you are sick as men with illness are a financial liability in the eyes of Chinese women. Makes no difference if you are married or not. In fact, worse if you are married to one, she is more likely to divorce you and take half of everything.

I know men who this happened to, I know plenty of people it happened to.

The "loser" tag is just water of a ducks back to me. Yes, any man who is in his forties and divorced with no kids is a loser. What fools these men are, they should have all gone to China and married a selfish woman and had a kid with her.

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