I agree with you. I even have some memories of good times and experiences in China, I would not say it's nostalgia though, not by any means.

Anyone who is nostalgic about ESL teaching has a serious problem imo!

Now I am having good times in Pattaya, but in five years time that will probably just be a hazy blur, I won't be nostalgic about it.

We have a good time for a while, experience a few things and move on. That should apply to women also, not this marriage and serious relationship bullshit.