Well, obviously people make their own decisions. However, I agree that Western people must be very careful when socializing with Chinese people, especially Western men.

This is even more so if these men have any sort or romantic ambitions toward Chinese women. If they can't speak or understand any Chinese there is even more danger.

You are right that the Chinese have no empathy, are generally immoral, and don't believe in fairness. You don't want to show empathy to people who have no concept of it and sharing resources and knowledge with those who don't appreciate it is also never a good idea.

It applies to Thailand and the Philippines also to a certain extent.

I think the way to go is to learn the language ( or try to ) and live with the woman you like, GF, whatever, in China, Thailand, Philippines, etc.

The biggest mistake men make is marrying these women. If they really want to marry them they need to sign a pre-nuptial agreement.

And NEVER marry an Asian woman and take her back to USA, Australia, UK, wherever.

That's just asking for big trouble.