Solid advice all around for foreign men who want a mate. I know you had mentioned Japanese women as generally being more civil than the aformentioned countries to the post I am responding to. I did hear it was hard to get a mate there due to them having better and more classy values. But what is worth doing is never easy.

For some of the foreign men I have met in china though, I think they and their respective wives deserve each other with the dysfunction they bring to the table. At least they both are discharging it off each other instead of on other people. Better for all of us that way.