Michael, I don't know you or your wife or your life or past or whatever, but I've been reading serious posts on this site for about two weeks now. Posts like questions about living abroad, jobs, salaries, the ins and outs etc. Every time I run into a post from you however, it is either a retort, a defense, a come back or just something inanely stupid. Don't you have a Chinese wife to attend to, or something better to do than waste your time writing to phantoms who don't know you??? Since when did defending yourself to strangers ever get anyone anywhere in life? I wish the editorial staff at this site would start screening responses like on DavesEslCafe - cause I stopped viewing that ESL forum two years ago precisely because of idiots like you who use the forum to spout B.S., and they DID screen some responses. If you like debate, join a debating club cause you're scaring people with real questions away. Get off and get a life.
Tim
P.S. If you think I'm going to enter into a debate with you, you're not as fast as the cockroach I just killed.