> My wife (Thai) and I have been married since 2001. I'm gonna say
> you're totally wrong. I brought my pretty wife home and horses**t
> like you harassed me and my wife all day - in restaurants, bars you
> name it. I could kick my own butt for not really understand the pain
> I put my wife throught by returning home. I won't put her throught
> this again. I have hurt her so bad. Ironicly, the only good people
> there beside my family and some friends were the MX lady, family who
> cleans the public school I used to work for. My wife and me love and
> trust each other and we're happy again away from home. My piece of
> advice is that keep your mouth shut s##.

Right on, JR. It is very difficult for me to believe that John and Jane taught in China for eight years and yet learned so little.
My wife is Chinese, JR, and our situation has been similar to yours in the love and trust area. We have not yet returned together to the USA so I don't know what will happen here. But in China we have been treated very well by all concerned