I agree. The amount of money wasted by men on women at expensive restaurants in China is just staggering! Often a lot of the food is wasted also, I saw this a lot when I was there.

It is not just the Chinese guys like you said, foreigners also waste a lot of money on Chinese women and they mostly get NOTHING in return.

You are smart to spend the least amount of money on women as possible. And going back to their place is best if you can do it, you don't want them knowing where you live.

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I was at a foreign restaurant in Nanning one day with a Canadian friend of mine and a USA bloke was sitting at a table nearby. Two young Chinese women came in and sat opposite him.

This idiot said, "do you want Chinese food or Western food" ??

My mate from Canada said, "What do you think" ?? "Of course they will order the Western dishes, they are the most expensive". We just started laughing. The girls looked offended but they did order the most expensive items on the menu so we were vindicated! China is full of fuckwits like that guy!

You are right, some of the soy boy beta male wimps on ESL boards will say you are "cheap". I've been called "cheap" myself online and also in real life. One guy said to me "Why don't you ever treat Chinese women, you can afford it". "You spend all your money on yourself". Yep, Graham ( a British beta male tosser ), you bet your fuckin' arse I'll spend it on myself!

This fool from the UK bought his Chinese wife ( poor, no surprise! ) a house, a car, and gives her an 8000 rmb a month "allowance". The women in China married to laowai compare with each other what they are given by their husbands. I wonder if these women have ever thought about working for a living and being self-reliant?

Out of all the foreigners I know who are married to Chinese women, hardly any of the wives have any sort of employment. They bleed these guys dry, and all they get is maybe the mediocre twice a year hand job.

They complain about never getting any sex. They are too "proud" to go to a hooker though. Instead they will just continue to waste hundreds of thousands of rmb, some of them MILLIONS of rmb on these useless women.

I just don't get it!