Dude, you are so doing this the hard way. If they won't let you live together because you aren't married, that's positively ridiculous. I've had several friends that lived with their boyfriend/girlfriend while there and was totally acceptable by their employers. I recommend you get out of that contract asap because there's going to be further problems down the line. Your employer is old fashioned and if they're old fashioned they may treat you like old fashioned Asian employers do: like they own you as a worker.