Crisis 1 - Just After Falling In Love, the new love feeling not as strong!

The first intense love rush has died down and the two I must be a common we. You discover each others weaknesses and are forced into new positions and compromises that often lead to conflicts.

What can you do: Do not be afraid of each others new sides that you now experience, understand that you are changing and that nothing is static. Take one thing at a time and talk to each other when new differences show up.

Warning: To believe that everything is black or white. Don't bu any preconceived labels on each other, ask instead questions and discuss how you want it together.

Crisis 2 - After The Wedding

You have longed for the big day and now it's gone. The planning is over, wedding gifts are lined up and the wedding dress is hanging back in the closet. The question is raised: "Now what, what happens now?". Many couples feel that they crossed the finish line and suffer from so-called wedding depression.

What can you do: To cross the finish line in a secure relationship port is not enough. Set up new dreams and goals that you can work towards, dream about, strive for and reach for together. Life has just started.

Warning: Stop talking about what you have and want to have together. This can cause the interest and love fade.

Crisis 3 - First Child

From having just had each other, now you go from being two to three. A new person is now joining your life and requires both of yours attention and sometimes couples do not manage to pay attention to each other.

What can you do: Keep your exclusive companionship. Do not forget to give each other a lot of appreciation. Allow time for just the two of you without kids and do something together that you think is funny as often as you can.

Warning: Avoid taking each other for granted. A happy relationship requires you to cooperate in the relationship every day. Sit down for a while and talk and make it cozy together every night when the baby is asleep.

Crisis 4 - Jealousy

You worry about your partners attractive colleague and who your partner are talking to on Facebook. When you're together, you can not help but worry about the glances directed at your partner. Jealousy in you immediately start to show.

What can you do: During temporary periods everyone can be more anxious and vulnerable, but jealousy and need for control is never okay. Increase reliance on each other by talking openly about things like this when it arises. Without 100 percent trust in a relationship it can never last.

Warning: Control Freak. It is never okay to sneak read your partner's emails or text messages.

Crisis 5 - You Forget About Each Other As Partners

Days turn into weeks, weeks into months. Without sex. When you met, your sex life was extremely hot. Today, you are more like best friends and it goes longer and longer between intimate moments.

What can you do: It's not a disaster if you at times are not able to have sex. But it is important to have daily physical contact. Massage or simply lying close together can serve as alternatives.

Warning: To stop hugging and kissing. These little gestures in your daily life can acts as a glue and keeps you together.

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André Palmér

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