That young bright man was standing on the stage to give his first speech. He could feel his heart pounding with an unknown fear. The room was air-conditioned but he was sweating like anything. He looked at the audience in front of him waiting for him to speak and said to himself 'I can't do this'.

He stepped down and went away leaving his audience clueless about what happened?

Does this sound familiar?

Do you also feel at times that you are not that self-confident as you can be?

If yes, then you are reading the right words because I am going to reveal top 3 secrets to boost your Self Confidence which will ultimately lead you to the success you deserve.

Read on!

Self Confidence Secret 1

Stop comparing yourself to others

Comparing yourself with others can really sabotage your Self Confidence.

You are a unique individual with wonderful gifts and talents to contribute to the world.

Take pride in being who you are, cherish your uniqueness and feel good about yourself. Remember you are YOU and not some one else

Self Confidence Secret 2

Make a list of your qualities

Make a list of all your qualities in your personal notebook, diary, computer or mobile phone.

List everything that you are good at, don't leave anything. You might think - oh, come on!

What's so special about making people laugh, other people can do it too.

The fact is - no, they can't.

Once you are done with the list, make it a habit to read it daily at least once preferably just before going to bed. This will help you immensely.

Self Confidence Secret 3

Acknowledge your daily successes

Often times, we tend to neglect our small successes and feel they are too small to even think about. But acknowledging your daily successes can really help boost your Self Confidence.

Before going to bed, make sure to look at the day and recall your successes.

If you have completed your official project on time - it is a success.

If you have cooked a delicious dinner - it is a success.

If you have maintained your cool during the stressful times of the day - it is a success.

Take time to acknowledge your daily successes, it is a sure shot way to boost your Self Confidence

Learn and implement these 3 secrets and see your Self Confidence boosting like never before.

Avdhessh Arya

Life Coach, Motivational Speaker, Author, RJ and Voice Actor

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