People like you are everything that is wrong with ex-pats, especially in China. A sniveling little weasel who kisses the arse of his "hosts" and is relegated to "guest" status. These Asians had better start being more grateful. It is a privilege for Asians to have people like me in their countries, not a right. It is also a privilege for an Asian gal to have a white 40 something boyfriend also. You are an arselicker, go away!