Were you two happy together at the time?

You are referring to the cat(Minty) and SB I take it? A tear comes to my eye. Isn't it rich that most of the thugs in history love animals. Even Hitler and the recently departed King of Thailand were partial to dogs. Not that dogs are not good to have.

Dragonized has a bleeding heart also, he says why can't you let people change and why can't others acknowledge that and be understanding? He hints that that reaction is pathetic.

Before SB saw the error of his ways he was hell bent on achieving a Chinese wife...I should say it wasn't just mentioned once it was pummeled to a pulp about his need for that wife. But still, according to Dragonized he is gentle and understanding to those westerners that have fallen for such a wife which he was lucky to have failed getting. So that's straightened out, if you have made a mistake you are not a pathetic individual- The Dragon has said so and SB will back him to the hilt.