> don't date your students, try not to date your colleagues (if you are
> a teacher). don't spend you hard earned money dating, if she likes
> you, she'll help you save money (an old Chinese tradition). don't
> promise after one day you know her, "I'll take you with me home,
> America/Canada". Keep your TWO feets on the ground; Just a
> temporary FANTASY.

> Yin

I am 50 years old and I went to China when I was 46. I have lived there most of the past four years. My wife, who is Chinese , and I are now living in Seoul. I met her in China two years ago. We got married last year. I didn't go there to get married, but I am happy the way it worked out. :)