Dear Dimwit:

You do sound like an honest person. Im glad you are happy here. I hope you realize that i did mention i know both types of middle aged people here that have relationships. The healthy & dangerous ones.

I never said that "ALL mid age and older people are losers" without "feelings and desires". I was trying to point out that some of us DO have meaningful relationships here.

The bottom line is, if you do have a good heart, (most) people here will see that, and age, looks, size, or skin color won't matter for long.

The same goes for the losers out there...people will see you for what you are, too. I have found the same thing here about age barriers, or lack thereof, to be exact.

BTW...I am no where near a "youngster", as you say. (Although there are times I wish i were. ha ha ha)

> Not only George but the other "youngsters" seem to have the
> erroneous idea that people (men or women) who are over 40 are not
> just as interested in having "meaningful relationships" as
> you who are young. One of the nice things about China as I stated in
> my original post is that there doesn't seem to be such age
> discrimination here. Let me assure you that all mid age and older
> people are NOT losers and we do have feelings and desires. The
> Chinese women/girls that I spend my time with value me as a person
> and don't look at my age as any sort of barrier to whatever
> relationship we have.
> I like being in China and am here because I choose to be, not because
> I am a "loser" and am escaping from somewhere else!