Being in love is not something you can control, it can, and will happen, whether you like it or not. And it can grow, or disappear without you controlling it. Being in love is not something you choose, and you can't really stop it either.

The benefits of being in love can be many. All the great emotions that you experience, the great euphoria, the feeling that almost everything around you seem positive, nothing seems really difficult, are all emotions that come up.

The downside is un-responded love. You are in love with a person who is not in love with you. You are trying to convince yourself to stop being in love and move on, you have a painful sensation in the chest that does not disappear, but unfortunately it is not that simple.

Being in love with someone can be complicated, it can be a long- time friend, that you have started to develop feeling for and now you are afraid to ruin the friendship if tell him or her about your feelings. It can be a colleague who is married or has a relationship already, In a situation like this, should you tell the other person about your feelings and maybe start a love relationship? Or should You hold back your emotions? It can be difficult.

If you fall in love with someone and there is a lot to lose, for him, or her, or yourself. If there is a lot at stake. You need to really think about what you want to do. And make sure you know if it is just a temporary love, or is it something that goes deeper?

When we were younger and did not dare to say what it was, ask the right question to the girl or guy that we were in love with, or had feelings for, was something that we can defend by saying that we were simply not mature enough to handle it back then. When we grow up, there is no excuse, it is very important to communicate clearly with the other person. Find out if the feeling is mutual. If the feeling is mutual, what do you want to do about it. And are there other people involved that you need to think about. If not, fine. Go for it. But if there are others involved that will end up getting hurt, then it is a different story.

If you are in a situation where you think that your love is un-responded. Don't walk around guessing, or feeling bad about it. Ask to talk with the person. Look for signs that will tell you how the other person feels. Ask to do something together, if you get a no right away, then you will know what the other person feels.The difficulty in that situation can be to keep control of your own emotions, the best way is to pretend that the answer does not mean anything to you. Don't show anything and move on.

It is difficult to give any advice about being in love, but a good tip is to try to think with your head too, and not just let your emotions decide what to do.

Love is a chaotic state of overwhelming emotion. The loving part is amazing, surprising and wonderful. Life is good. There is lots of passion and that alone is an important part in strengthening a relationship. Through passion awakens love.

But love is a deep feeling, something that is strong and durable. Love is stable, it is not something that will disappear overnight, or something that you get rid of very easily. Love is something to build on. Many people confuse love and passion. Many people say "I'm not in love anymore" - because the passion is gone. Fine, then it was probably just that, passion and not love.

In order to deepen a relationship, to build a life together, you need to be more aware of the difference between love and passion. Love is not passion - love is about appreciating each other and take care of each other.

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