No, modern china will never be a great society. There is such a thing, however as finding someone whom you can start a life with from other places. There are a lot of countries, cultures, and tribes to choose from. Sadly, you are right about western men. Many I have met fit the profile of what you have said about them.

Being born into a tribe doesn't mean you are in it forever. The human race became diversified through intermixing, eh?