Said person's very life gives us an example of what not to follow. His entitled attitude is very typical of a racist white man who is married to a non-white person. He thinks he can parent me. I have no doubt he is emotionally abusive to his family members, maybe even physically abusive. The way my own family abused and neglected me caused these types of people to come into my life. What I suggest you do is look up the "grey rock" method of dealing with people on youtube. It will save you a lot of trouble.

There are many like him in this world. The flea that takes a bit of your food at the table without your permission has more honesty in it that these ilk of people.