What do you mean by "If you are a cringer women will pick up on it and show you contempt".

If it means, " Chinese women will ignore you if you are not motivated and don't get a second job",
well I'd say those to avoid such women like the plague.

Women must MAKE THEIR OWN MONEY and men have zero obligation to them!

Well it meant nothing like you chose to take it as meaning. Here it is again:-
No, always moonlight!
One shouldn't become a cringer, startled by your own shadow-

Which means don't be afraid to break the law. 'Fraid you dashed for that record player without reading what I said.